This Masters Sexual Muscle

Over the years I have heard many people talk about the brain being the biggest sexual organ. Usually, though, this is being referred to when talking about turning on a woman or getting her aroused. Most tend to think that this doesn't apply to men. There is a common belief that men achieve arousal through physical stimulation. Many men tend to believe this as well and that seems to add credence to this social perception. It still doesn't make it true though.

The brain is the centre for sexual arousal and fulfilment in people period. If that weren't true for men, they wouldn't be involved in BDSM. Many of the acts that are done in this lifestyle have no physical connection to sex. They are arousing but not inherently sexual. It is our brain that makes the sexual connection and then builds our desire. An example of that would be going to the walk in clinic to get a shot for rabies. The doctor or nurse stab a large needle into your abdomen 20 - 30 times. It is seldom perceived as enjoyable and I have never heard of someone being turned on by it. BDSM needle play, however, can be an incredible turn on for those doing it and receiving it. Some might even enjoy the needles to the abdomen. This is certainly a mental connection to sexuality though.

If a person understands themselves and what is truly responsible for arousing their passion, desire, and sexual drive, they can find ways to make the most of it. My biggest turn on is devotion and worship. Their is nothing that can get me hard as fast as a woman kneeling at my feet not just submitting to my will but finding value and worth in giving her entire being to me as her master and god. That, for me, is the ultimate fruition of power exchange.

Knowing that this is where my passion lies, I go to great lengths to teach my slaves how to control their thoughts, beliefs, and emotions so that they can conform them to my will. If a slave doesn't know how to be truly devoted, how can she give me absolute devotion? If a slave doesn't know how to worship, how can she give herself to me as her god.

I think that people, men especially, will benefit from learning to accept that sex is in the mind first. Explore your sexual mind. Get creative in your desire. Find connections and then learn how to accentuate them with the understanding that it is all in your mind. Who knows where this could lead. You may find a whole new world to explore.